Men have a stronger sex drive than women, and in normal circumstances, men have more sexual activity than the average woman. This is also because men have stronger physical endurance, resulting in a higher frequency. Generally, men should have sex once or twice a day, with a break of a few days in between. It is not recommended to have sex every day, as this can cause harm to the body.
Some newlyweds spend almost every day on their honeymoon, having sex four or five times a day, and even locking themselves in during the day. However, they should also exercise proper restraint and not go overboard. According to a survey, the number of sexual activities for men usually decreases with age, with an average of three times a week at 22-25 years old, twice a week at 32-35 years old, and once a week at 41-45 years old. However, this is only an average, and every age group has a lot of differences. Some people can have sex several times a day, while others only have it once a month. Therefore, it is not just about the frequency of sexual activity that determines whether sex is appropriate.
From a physical standpoint, as long as there is sexual arousal, and there is no unwillingness or discomfort, then it is possible to have sex, regardless of gender or age. The so-called “unwillingness” in women refers to submitting to the male’s sexual needs, while in men, they may not want to have sex, but they stimulate themselves through reading pornographic books, magazines or videos, or even forcing themselves to masturbate in order to engage in sexual activities. This is harmful because after each ejaculation, men do not produce sexual reactions for a period of time or a short period. This is a natural protection mechanism of the body. If you force yourself to engage in sexual activity during this time, it is equivalent to undermining your own protection mechanism, which is certainly harmful to your health.
Many infertility patients are often at a loss when it comes to sexual activity frequency, as some doctors want them to have more sexual activity, while others limit sexual activity. What is the most effective method?
The objective standard for measuring sexual activity frequency is if there is vitality and physical and mental pleasure in sex the next morning. If the following conditions occur 2 days or a few days after sexual intercourse, and no other cause is found, it can be regarded as excessive sexual activity, and sexual activity interval should be extended accordingly.
It is worth mentioning that men are more prone to indulging themselves and frequently having sex. Some men believe that the more sex they have, the greater their strength and dignity. They may not be consciously aware of this but believe that they should do everything they can to satisfy their wife’s sexual needs. Therefore, after they obtain pleasure from sexual activity, they will continue to strengthen their sexual awareness and get up again in the shortest possible time with the power of will to support their tired bodies to engage in sexual activities, which undoubtedly causes great harm to their physical and mental health.